And stop being so dramatic.
Sounds like you are meeting some interesting chicks! I wouldn't waste time with the Japanese Society unless it provides an opportunity to meet some hot babes, otherwise it is a waste of time.As for your transition, wouldn't that be covered by the NHS? Maybe you should meet with the GLSU and ask people there for advice. Could save you a lot of money.
Seems as though they do provide a wide variety of services: http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/Transhealth/Pages/Transoverview.aspx
Yeah I know NHS offers treatment for transpeople BUT I heard that the waiting list is super long. And there will be a lot of steps that I've got to take which makes it even longer. And they have the possibility of not approving that I'm trans. Going private saves me so much time. I will look into the NHS again though.
Maybe so, maybe not. Check it out and get in touch with trans groups in your area for some advice and guidance. Never spend your own money except when you have to.